Monday, February 18, 2013

The Magic of Pretend: A Dog of his very own


When I was a little girl, I always longed for a dog.  I used to love my neighbor's dog, Lucy, even though she smelled strong and left hair in the bed at my best friend's place.  She was a sweet, mild-temperred dog and I was infatuated with her.  When she passed away of old age, she left a big hole.

For my birthday when I was in grade two, a friend gave me a little ivory coloured stuffed dog that looked just like Lucy and I used to pretend that it was her.  I would leave a little dish of water or food in my room for her and sometimes I would put "Lucy" on a leash and walk her up and down the street in front of my house.  The cars used to zip by pretty fast and I figured, to anyone looking out the window driving by, "Lucy" might look like a real dog.  I did this until one day someone told me that I had a nice "dog" and I knew they were just pretending she was real for my benefit.  I stopped walking Lucy.  But I still have her and she was one of my favorites for a long time. 

Before we got Abe, (we were weeks away from picking him up), I saw a toy Samoyed in a children's store.  I bought him in excitement and anticipation of our new arrival: a mini-Abe.  Well, Gabriel has really taken a liking to mini-Abe.  Today Gabriel was carrying Abe's leash around the house (a favorite thing to do) and so I leashed mini-Abe for him.  This sent him off in a flurry of excitement doing laps on the hallway with mini-Abe trailing behind.  He walked that dog all over the house for the better part of an hour with a vice-grip on that leash like you wouldn't believe.  We even put out some water and food (Cheerios) for his little doggy, which Gabriel ate and then fed to Abe.


I think Abe was a little jealous of all the attention his replica was getting but the upside is that, because Gabriel was spending so much time walking his doggy, he finally left Abe in peace for most of the day.

Here is a little clip of Gabriel "walking his doggy."


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The Rocking Dory from Maine, Olay!


Gabriel's Big Birthday present finally arrived--A rocking dory from Maine.  Olay!  By now, you have likely noticed that we just might be obsessed a little with the ocean.  I guess that's what you get when you have roots in the East Coast.   And we are fostering that love for the sea in our young lad.


Gabriel took to his new boat right away and figured out how to rock in it the first day and even how to get out on his own.  He's got the hang of it, absolutely.  I can just imagine how many hours he will spend sitting in his boat playing Captain and the adventures he will dream up--fishing, sailing away to far off places.

Sometimes on the video monitor, I catch Gabriel lounging (awake) staring up at the painting of the boat above his crib and I like to pretend that he knows it is a picture of a boat and that he is either a) admiring the art his mama painted, or b) dreaming up adventures and pretending he is on the boat.  I'm sure he is doing neither at this point, but maybe someday he will.  And maybe someday he'll wear his great-grandfather's Captain hat and sail in a real boat.  And maybe it will be in Newfoundland. Wouldn't that be something.  For now, here is a clip of Gabriel rocking in his boat.  Ps. He likes to stand up in it.  Silly boy.






Sunday, February 17, 2013

Clinging to Sunshine

Today, back in chilly Arlington, we are back to reality....  We want to close our eyes and try to conjure up the heat of the sun, the sandiness of the beach and the satiny warmth of the pool.  Already thinking about next year!

But for now.....  Just when you thought you were getting tired of seeing pictures from Anna Maria, here are the last of them.  I promise!


So long Anna Maria!  We miss your beaches, your sun, your pool, the way you bring old friends together AND how drinking apple juice from a plastic stemmed glass is so much fancier.

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