Showing posts with label Firsts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Firsts. Show all posts

Thursday, September 10, 2015

First Day Back to School.


First days of school are fraught with excitement, nervousness and a little bit of sadness.  For those sending their children to full days of school, it is the marker of the end of days spent together and a step more forward to independence. 

It was a big day for him, our little guy, struggling to survive days without naps.  After an icecream to celebrate the return of school and routine, he fell asleep in the car and then again on the bottom of the stairs after I pulled him out of the car.  I didn't have the heart to wake him, poor guy!  Maggie watched him adoringly while he slept...

When I dropped Gabriel off for his first day at school (now in the afternoons) Maggie was so sad to be leaving him behind.  She wailed his name all the way home. "Gabriel, Gabriel.  I want Gabriel!"  It was really sweet because really, she doesn't know much about life without him.  He is really her hero. 

But I am so looking forward to spending a little bit of time with just Maggie and I too, doing the things SHE really wants to do.  


Friday, June 19, 2015

A Little Graduation for our Big Boy.


Just like that, a year has flown by!

I remember last summer calling the nursery school day after day after day checking their waitlist to see if there was any way to get Gabriel into the nursery school there.  I was in a panic!  With a (somewhat) newborn who needed a lot of attention and a two and half year old who needed even more, how were we possibly going to survive the year?!  Putting Gabriel in nursery school turned out to be one of the best decisions. 

Not only did it give him a break from home life and me a break from being pulled in so many directions, but he made some fantastic friends, developed a much more extensive vocabulary and learned some of those basic skills he will need to get through school--like sitting still for more than 30 seconds and working with others.  He has come a long way from the child who ran around in circles the first couple of days to this new mature "big boy" who is able to articulate his needs and problem solve and write his own name!  


And this is also thanks to some incredible teachers with many years of experience being mothers themselves as well as teachers.  Thank you for making school such a positive experience!

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

She Walks!

Along with Maggie turning one, has been the big developmental milestone of taking her first steps.  Can you believe it that Maggie took her first steps on exactly her first birthday?  Sort of uncanny don't you think?  Ok, maybe not.  Unless you knew that she started crawling the very day she turned 8 months.  The very day.

Here's a little clip we finally got of Maggie starting to walk.  Exciting times!  I think our lives are about to change all over again!




For me walking really marks the end of being a baby.  And I have to admit that while walking is really exciting, I am sad about this.  That one year of sweet innocent baby-ness, although it can be at times a little sleepless, is so very precious.  People tell you all the time that this time is so short.  And let me tell you, it really is!  Sigh.  The toddler years have started now and it will be an exciting to watch her little personality emerge and develop with more words she learns and new connections she makes. 

Go Baby Girl, Go!

Friday, January 9, 2015

For a Girl Who Turns 1.


It was one year ago today that we were anticipating little baby Magdalene's birth which you can read about here.  We were so excited to be having a little girl.  We wondered what she would look like, how she would change our family, how she would fill our lives. 

And she certainly has.  As the mother of a one child already, you wonder how you will possibly love another child as much as your first.  Somehow it doesn't make sense that if your attention is divided, so must your love?  But that is the funny thing about love isn't it?  It's not a number dividable.  It's not fractioned out.  You just love them all without that love being thinned or stretched at all.  And, at least for us, it has made my husband and I closer and more connected and in love through all the piles of frustrations and steep learning curves, the myriad sleepless nights, the divided attentions and extra duties.  Somehow that makes us rely on each other, lean into each others' strengths and adore each other just a little bit more.  It's like adding gold or silver thread to a tapestry--the whole weaving is all the more beautiful and intricate for it.  


As we inch closer to that 1st birthday, it is unbelievable to me how fast a year has gone.  I feel like in some ways it has just slipped all too quickly without me realizing it.   Suddenly it was time for Magdalene to be sitting up, time to start solids, time to pop teeth and talk and nearly walk.  I remember waiting and watching and waiting like a diligent mother hen for Gabriel, anticipating each moment, wondering and worrying what I could be doing to make it all happen, as if I had some big role to play.  And somehow with Magdalene, it has all happened so effortlessly, without the unnecessary poking and prodding and anticipation.   And maybe it's partly to do with having an older brother who teaches her everything. 


Magdalene, your entrance into this world and into our lives has changed us.  It has stretched us and help us grow, it has brightened our lives.  You are such a mischievous, sweet, tenderhearted little soul who is simultaneously tough as nails when you need to be.  We love you!  Happy Almost Birthday.

xo Mama and Dad

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Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Gabriel Reads: Star of His Really Own.

So it's been a while now that while we read  before naps and bedtime, that Gabriel will finish lines of a story, especially when they rhyme.  We thought for sure they were memorized and we thought that was pretty neat.  Than one night he grabbed a book from us and the coolest thing happened.....

Gabriel started "reading" the entire book to us.  Now this isn't a rhyming book, it's a story.  Not only has he memorized the entire book from looking at the pictures, he can recite the book from memory in the bathtub without the book in front of him.  Ok, so it's not word for word, but still.  Jordan and I were astounded.  I am sure similar moments have happened in your house.  Milestones you never anticipated would happen so quickly (be it one thing or another) and ones it seems you wait for forever.....  Children are really just the most fascinating little people to watch, aren't they?   

Here is a little clip of the story he's been reciting at a minimum of five times a day for the past two weeks:





For those of you that cannot understand what he is saying here is a loose transcript.

The boy loves stars really much
Boy’s watching the stars window
Really own.
Seek and star.
long walks together.
Catchin star.
The next day
Waited, lunch, waited, after dinner, some more
Sun’s go away.
Saw the star.
Boy’s jumping
No jumping
Catch him
Carefully climb the the tallest tree
Star way out of reach.
Father’s boat
It’s so heavy to carry
Fly the ship to grab the star....

Stay tuned over this next couple of weeks while we share a few winter suggestions for some of our favorite reads.  Just in time for Christmas purchases!

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Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Lessons Learned.


Well, this morning was quite exciting in our neighborhood when a firetruck came rolling through, lights flashing.  It was a cold morning this morning, so while loading Gabriel in the car, I shut the door, apparently with my set of only functioning keys.  While reaching to load up Maggie, Gabriel clicked the lock button and locked himself inside.  A moment of panic set in, when I realized I had an extra set in my purse on the ground beside me.  Phew!  Always thinking, Stephanie.  Like a good mother.  Always prepared.  Well, I reached in and pulled them out only to find the battery dead.  I clicked and clicked, but nothing happened. 

Well, I said to myself, surely if he locked himself in, we can find a way to get him to unlock the door, right?  At first Gabriel thought this was all quite funny.  He could buckle himself in my seat, pretend to drive away.  He could take off his coat if he wanted to and he did right in front of me in a showy display of independence. Haha.  Freedom!  I coaxed and coaxed him to try to unlock the door, open the handle, etc. which to his credit he tried to do, but couldn't seem to figure the unlock part out on his own.  His excitement turned to eagerness to help before panic and then utter despair when he realized he was really and truly stuck and there wasn't anything I could do.

I called around trying to find a tow company close to us, but most were too far away and at this point, at what felt like -10C at 9am in the morning, Gabriel was starting to get really upset and cold.  He was blowing on his little fingers and sucking on them trying to keep them warm.  Meanwhile, Magdalene, in my arms was also getting cold and restless and upset.  I remember my friend Lucy, that time this past summer when her twins got locked in the car, had called the fire department.  I knew they were close to us and could arrive quickly.

One dead key battery, several attempts at coaxing, a call to husband who came rushing home, a few phone calls to various tow companies, the car dealership and CAA (where we are not members), thirty minutes in the cold, one phone call to the fire department, and one smashed back window later....  Gabriel was retrieved from the car. 

He was definitely upset and scared, but the moment that window smashed and he saw the firemen and firetruck, the cool factor definitely set in.  The firemen were very understanding.  Apparently this is some rite of passage for two-years-olds-turning-three?  We were all quite thankful for the firemen who then let us climb inside the truck to peek around, gave Gabriel a stuffed Dalmatian puppy and took our picture.  Lucy's twins even stopped by to check it out, remembering fondly their locked-in-the-car-adventure as well.  It made me feel better that even such a sensible and put-together mother, like my friend Lucy, could make a simple mistake like locking her children in the car too. 

It was a scary (and expensive) lesson to learn.  And such an easy mistake to make.  But all was well after a few cuddles and some hot chocolate.  Well, Gabriel will live to tell the tale of the day his mother locked him in the car on a cold morning in November.  But at least we are all safe and sound!  And smiling nonetheless.

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Hello.


How much do I LOVE this age!!  Babies at eight months are all sweetness and drool and big belly giggles and bright eyes.   They give big open-mouthed-sucky kisses and then they chuckle hysterically afterwards at their mischievousness.  I don't know about your little one, but this girl loves to eat ANYTHING and shesleeps through the night (well, used to!  We are working on it.  Again).  I feel like it doesn't take much to keep this girl happy.  She just loves to watch the world go by, is happy to meet new people and get cuddles from me and anyone who will hold her.  Life is pretty easy for this little lady, so long as her older brother isn't trying to body slam her, flip her on her tummy or try to pick her up and swing her around.  (Sometimes he thinks she is a stuffed toy, I think).  Goodness, this is going to be one tough chick, that's for sure. 

And, she also just started crawling!  Eeeee... Batten down the hatches! And is she ever happy to be on the move, even if she isn't too keen to get anywhere too fast.  Here is a video clip:


Click on link:  http://youtu.be/0CtbttCem-Y


Wednesday, September 10, 2014

First Days.


See this smile?  That's the smile of a boy who has just started nursery school and is pretty happy about it.  The funny thing is that when I envisioned Gabriel starting school, I always pictured it at about five years of age and I would be a big weepy mess as I let him go, where he would be spending more hours with teachers and peers than us here at home.  You know how it is with your first, you get to watch their entire world unfold, language develop in the tiniest microscopic ways so that you know nearly every detail--when "mamamamam" becomes "mama" and when scribbles turn into airplanes.  When for the first time, they draw a short line and declare it a "one."  So it is sort of strange leaving him with someone else and then not seeing all of that happen any more in the same way everyday.    But I guess that's also a good thing.  I think a little bit of independence is healthy.  

The first day of school, I made him a big breakfast of bacon and eggs and afterwards an ice cream at our favorite little bakery, Cordi's.  (As an aside, they make the MOST AMAZING gelato.  I felt like I was back in Italy).  We made it into a big deal and talked about how fun it was going to be and how he would get to see his friends and make new ones.  Let me tell you, this kid loves school.  On days he doesn't attend, he asks if he is going.  The night before his second day of school, he could barely get to sleep for all his excitement.  He woke up several times at night and came into our room.  "Stool?" with dozy excitement.  "Not yet, honey.  Tomorrow."  "Tomorrow," he'd say with resignation.  He's so proud with his little backpack and his little boots he wears especially for school.  He puts it on himself and clips the straps across his chest. 

How are mama and papa?  We are doing just fine.  And more than anything, just so pleased to see him so excited and loving this new chapter in his life.  And I have to say, I am also enjoying the extra hot cup of coffee, spend some quality mama-baby time with Maggie, have time to prepare supper in advance and a little bit of time to myself while Magdalene naps.  There are always a few tears at first when I leave Gabriel there, but then he always has a great time.  I take that as a positive  sign.  Although, he loves school, he also still needs me sometimes.  And that's a good feeling. 

Loving school is something I hope continues for our little guy.  I know I didn't always love school, particularly in those middle years.  I don't think I was nearly as social as Gabriel. (I know.... hard to believe).  But both my husband and I sure did love learning and still do.  I have always had fond memories of those early years.  It's those special caring teachers that really make a difference.


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Thursday, June 19, 2014

So Many Silly Faces.


Apparently, both my children think they are just hilarious.  I don't think I was nearly as outwardly, outrageously fun-loving or hilarious as a child.  They must get it from their father.  I love having children who love to have a good time and make people laugh.   Because, goodness knows, we all need a little more laughter in our lives. 


And just in time for her five month birthday, Magdalene sat up for a whole five minutes straight yesterday.  I put her in her little baby lounger and when I came back into the room, there she was sitting straight up with perfect infant posture playing away quite nonchalantly.  I swear, someday I'll walk in the room and find that she's toddling away after a toy.   We took great delight in watching her explore the world from a sitting up perspective.  As Maggie and Gabriel sat on the floor with the abacus, it just melted my mama heart to see them playing together so sweetly.


Happy Five Months Baby Girl!

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Saturday, May 31, 2014

A Couple of Milestones over the Week.




Over the past two weeks, Gabriel has delved into the world of "reading" and has all but mastered the alphabet.  Jordan and I can barely believe it.  We keep asking him to show us like we don't think it's real, surely he's forgotten!  His excitement is tangible. 

I would just like to note on this video that learning the alphabet was mostly HIS initiative.  Learning letters started one day when someone put his name on the side of his sippy cup.  He immediately was interested.  After he learned numbers, I put some alphabet cards up on the wall in the kitchen and figured I might start with "A."  Before I knew it, the whole thing had taken on a life of his own.  Combined with a game on my iphone called Alphatots (one which he has played relentlessly while at the doctor's office, in the car on the way home while I try to keep him awake or just a few minutes here and there when I need to get something done), over a period of two weeks, Gabriel learned the entire alphabet, minus a letter here and there ("Hotdogs," instead of "H" or "Zebra" instead of "Z," "Umbrella" instead of "U").  Isn't technology AMAZING?? 

It wasn't more than a week and he was literally running down to the kitchen wall in the morning after just waking up to tell me that he knew three more letters.  We then moved each letter he mastered to the wall in the sunroom where he would proudly rehearse them.  He is delighted to show anyone who asks and now sees letters everywhere he goes, including the overhead of music at church, where he exclaims quite loudly and with all the excitement a little body can muster, "Ay!"
 
*I also highly recommend Tallytots which teaches kids their numbers.

And, not to be outshone, here is a video of Magdalene's first little giggles. I guess she is not nearly as much of a fan of the elephant noise.  Yet.




*Just in case you are interested, the vintage-looking flashcards are called "Animal Fun" by Junzo Terada and you can get there here.

**And thank you to all of our family who, while visiting, indulged Gabriel in his quest to master the alphabet.  U will always be for Umbrella and H for Hotdogs.  ;)

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Eyes Wide Open.


Oh, hi there Beautiful!  Nice to see you with your eyes open.  Welcome home, take a look around.  This is your new little world.  I'm pretty sure you didn't see it yesterday. 


I make no apologies.  I am infatuated with this new little creature.  :) 

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Thursday, December 5, 2013

First Santa Experience.


It's the beginning of December now, and we have let ourselves start feeling a little Christmasy here!  We haven't put up our tree yet, and thanks to Facebook, Pinterest and Instagram, I'm feeling like the only family on the face of the planet who haven't...  But it doesn't mean we haven't started celebrating the season.

I should say, Christmas is a pretty important time in this house, as in many other houses, but neither Jordan or I have ever been big "Santa" people--it's not something that I think was ever a really big deal in either of our houses growing up.  Neither of us "believed" in Santa even as young children.  Christmas was more about advent and the birth of Jesus, the promise of hope and about creating/instilling traditions, giving of ourselves, spending time together as a family and thinking of others.

While these things are incredibly important to us and we hope will be to both Gabriel and baby girl as they get older, sometimes you have to get a little silly, get hyped up on candy canes and hot chocolate and just have a good time.  And so this morning we armed ourselves with candy canes and headed out to see Santa with friends.

To be honest, I was not expecting much for our Mall Santa.  My mama friends here mostly have horror stories about taking their kids to see Santa--lost shoes, tears, horrible pictures, crowds, etc.   And then sometimes, when your little one is not feeling well, even Santa can't help.  My expectations were, um, tempered and I decided to think of it more as a "rite of passage." Doesn't every kid need at least one crying picture with Santa??

We were actually quite delighted.  Unexpectedly, it was quiet this morning when we went to see Santa--complete with a real belly and a real beard.  He was legit.  And delightful!  We had a pretend snowball war (which Gabriel engaged in), we built a pretend snowman, we lit the tree lights using colours from the kids, read a story and sang songs.   I think Gabriel was quite smitten with Santa and thought him rather funny. When we actually got to sitting with Santa, he wasn't such a stranger any more.  He gave him a candy cane and a five five and we talked about trucks and trains together. 


Poor Tatiana feeling a little under the weather...  A candy cane helped :) 


 A "Sears pose."   Where is that darn camera?


We finished off the morning by guzzling some warm hot chocolate before driving home.  And all the way home, the new word was "San-Ta! San-Ta!"  Still probably going to keep it "not a big deal" but hey, thanks Santa!  That was pretty fun!


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Sunday, November 17, 2013

First Haircuts are No Fun :(


Ok, so apparently I am not the only one to ever get traumatized by a haircut.  I remember coming out of those discount haircut places as a teenager feeling like I looked like a poodle, or better yet a man. Change is scary.  Especially when it means something you sport on your noggin for everyone to see....  I guess?

I kind of knew that the first haircut might be a little rough (if not for him, for us!) and so like a diligent parent, I did a quick google to see what helpful hints there were.  And then employed as many as I could.

We actually found a good place and were greeted by a fun young stylist with wild hair--green and an orange spiral on top (see below).  I think Gabriel liked her and even gave her "ten" and a hug when we left.  But just wasn't so much into the comb and scissors. I don't think it would have mattered what hair place we went to, Gabriel wasn't going to love it no matter how many Cheerios, songs, iphones we had going.  Some kids are just like that, I guess.

It was a miracle his hair came out looking like it did with all the arm flailing and head shaking going on.  Admittedly, my own heart sank a little when those first blonde wisps hit the floor.  I was so nervous that those locks of silk would magically change into real hair.  But I didn't let them cut too much, and a day later (and a sucker later) we are glad we cut it. Maybe we should have started with the sucker?

Oh, and I did show them this picture from the summer when I thought his hair was perfect.  That helped a lot.


Goofing around and getting him comfortable....He walked in there like he thought he was getting a needle.....


See, it turned out just fine.  Thank you fun lady with the green/orange 'do!  We liked you.  Sorry for the tears!  And if any other mamas have tips out there....  We are open to suggestions for the next time..... in about six months.

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